Barbara Joan Bell's Obituary
Barbara Joan Bell, a beloved resident of Tulsa, Oklahoma, passed away on September 15, 2023, at the age of 87. She was born on July 13, 1936, in Tulsa, Oklahoma, to her late parents, Eugene B. Dicus and Betty Leora Dicus.
Barbara's life was one marked by resilience, compassion, and an unwavering commitment to her family and community. She graduated from East Central High School in May of 1950, setting the foundation for a life filled with purpose and dedication.
Throughout her lifetime, Barbara wore many hats, each one with grace and dedication. She was a loving mother, a devoted wife, and a nurturing housewife who brought warmth and love to her home. Her sense of humor was legendary, and her patience, seemingly endless.
Barbara's professional journey was equally remarkable. She served as an Executive Secretary, showcasing her exceptional organizational skills and dedication to her work. Later, she became the President of Bell Cleaning Services, where her leadership and attention to detail shone brightly. In her capacity as a Licensed Private Investigator, specializing in Bank Fraud, she displayed an unmatched commitment to upholding justice and integrity.
However, Barbara's true calling in life was her role as a selfless caregiver. She cared for her husband when he lost his sight at an early age, showing boundless love and support without complaint. Those who knew her husband affectionately referred to Barbara as a saint for her unwavering devotion.
Her caring spirit extended beyond her immediate family. Barbara opened her heart and home to her granddaughter, Misty during her struggle with mental illness, providing a safe and loving environment until her untimely passing. She also took her son into her home, caring for him after he had a stroke until he regained his independence.
In her spare time, Barbara enjoyed expressing her creativity through drawing, delving into the pages of countless books, and challenging her mind with crossword puzzles. Her interests were as diverse as her heart was generous.
Barbara Joan Bell's legacy is one of love, compassion, and unselfishness. She touched the lives of all who were fortunate enough to know her, leaving an indelible mark on the hearts of those she cared for and those who cared for her.
She will be deeply missed by her family and friends, but her memory will live on as an enduring testament to the power of love, kindness, and selflessness.
"Her love knew no bounds, and her spirit will forever be a guiding light in our lives."
Barbara was preceded in passing by her parents; her beloved husband, Aaron William Bell, Jr.; and her infant daughter, Terry Suzanne Bell; and her granddaughter, Misty Michelle Reynolds.
She is survived by her children, Dana Jill Bell-Reynolds, Timothy Scott Bell, and William Bradly Bell; her grandchildren, Joshua Ryan Reynolds, William Scott Bell, Jaclyn Suzanne Bell, and Miranda Whitney Maxey; her great-grandchildren, Madison Michelle Brown, Ryan Tate Swayze, Layla Marie Trimm, and Cameron Whitney Trimm; her siblings, Betty Jean Broome, Star long (Casey), Gary Vincent Dicus, and Tommy Eugene Dicus; her nieces and nephews, Kurt Dustin Dicus, Kristopher Jason Dicus, Russel Bell, Douglas Bell, Star Slagle, Bobby Lee Slagle, Louie Slagle, Dana Long, Kelly Long, Randy Read, and Linda Hazelton.
Celebration of Life Service will be at 12:30 p.m., Wednesday, September 27, 2023, at Floral Haven Funeral Home Chapel.
To view the service via webcasting use the link below:
http://webcast.funeralvue.com/events/viewer/92931/hash:27868B6925DA383C
What’s your fondest memory of Barbara?
What’s a lesson you learned from Barbara?
Share a story where Barbara's kindness touched your heart.
Describe a day with Barbara you’ll never forget.
How did Barbara make you smile?
