David Lee Hogan's Obituary
David Lee Hogan, aged 61, of Tulsa, Oklahoma, passed away on October 22, 2024. David was born in Tulsa on August 20, 1963. David is survived by his sister Tammy Hogan, brother Billy Hogan, and sister Shari (Arron) Pettit and many nieces and nephews.
In his early years, David was known for his humor. He was the kind of person who wanted everyone in the room to laugh. A natural storyteller with a talent for jokes, David commanded any room of family and friends, leaving everyone in stitches. He was beyond hilarious.
David loved motocross racing in Hallett with his cousin Smokey, creating many memories with family and continuing to ride motorcycles into his young adulthood. More than anything, he loved fishing with his older brothers, Bucky and Bobby. His nephews fondly remember thrilling rides in his Corvette and on his motorcycle—including the time he even rode a motorcycle into their living room. He even raised a couple of pit bulls, his pride and joy being a brindle named "Spanky."
David was a true '70s guy who had many friends and embraced the spirit of the decade, spending time at the lake and reveling in rock and roll. If a song was playing on the radio, KMOD and he was in the car, he would quiz you, “what band is it?” “what’s the name of that song” he always knew and won out every single time. He wasn’t a saint by any means, but within the right mindset, he was a pretty good ol’ guy.
David was able to do some traveling, including Florida to visit his sisters Tammy and Lori, where he enjoyed deep-sea fishing trips and making cherished memories. He also spent a lot of time with his younger sister, Shari, and her family on their farm, riding four-wheelers, fishing, and enjoying life in the country, away from the hustle of the city. He truly enjoyed the animals and cherished time spent with his niece and nephew.
David’s life journey took an unexpected turn when he suffered a traumatic brain injury from a motor vehicle accident, which ultimately led to a diagnosis of schizophrenia and a lifelong battle with mental health challenges that seemed to intensify over time. Throughout these challenges, his dear friend Curtis was the one friend that remained in his life for over 20 years, for this we are eternally grateful.
Rest in peace, Devo Dave. At last, you are finally free. We have no doubt that our precious momma and big brother were waiting for you, along with many other loved ones.
In honor of David’s life, we ask that you extend special compassion to anyone suffering from mental health issues and their families. A private celebration of David’s life will be held with only immediate family members and friends.
To the families affected by Schizophrenia or any mental illness:
We see the courage it takes to face the days that can turn into years or decades, the strength you show even when words fall short. We know the weight of watching someone you love drift beyond reach, caught in a prison of delusions that further dissolves their trust in you leaving you hurting and utterly powerless. Your journey is complex, often misunderstood, and yet you continue forward, fueled by hope, love, and resilience.
Please know that your struggles are not invisible; we honor the depth of what you carry, the quiet heroism in every moment of patience and compassion. In a world that often fails to understand, we stand with you, recognizing your strength, and feeling deeply for the path you walk. You are not alone.
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