Frankie Joy Whitten's Obituary
With heavy hearts, we announce the passing of Frankie "Joy" Whitten, a remarkable woman whose legacy of love and devotion will forever be etched in our hearts. Frankie's journey on this earth may have come to an end, but her spirit and the cherished memories she created will continue to inspire us all.
Born on Valentine's Day in 1941, Joy was a beacon of love and warmth from the very beginning. She was named after her father Frank Mayhan. Her infectious smile and kind-hearted nature made her a true joy to be around. Throughout her life, she exemplified the beauty of spreading kindness and compassion, leaving an indelible mark on the lives she touched.
Joy's love for the land was evident in her deep connection to her beloved farm. The open fields, rolling hills, and the tranquility of nature brought her immeasurable joy. She found solace and purpose tending to her land, cultivating its beauty and sharing its bounty with those she held dear.
A devoted grandmother, Joy's heart expanded with immeasurable love whenever she was in the presence of her grandchildren. Her eyes would light up as she watched them play, cherishing each moment spent together. Their laughter echoed in her heart, forever ingrained as a testament to the unbreakable bond they shared.
Joy's farm was not just a place of beauty, but a haven for her cherished goats and loyal dogs. Her connection with animals was a testament to her nurturing spirit, providing a safe and loving home for these creatures who were lucky enough to know her care.
Having retired from AVIS, Joy's professional journey was marked by dedication and commitment. Her colleagues remember her as a beacon of positivity, a source of inspiration to all, and a friend who made the workplace feel like a family.
Above all, Joy possessed a rare and genuine love for everyone she met. Her ability to see the goodness in people and make them feel valued was a gift she shared generously. Her warmth and welcoming spirit made strangers feel like friends and friends feel like family.
As we bid farewell to Frankie Joy Whitten, let us remember the radiant love she shared, the joy she brought into our lives, and the legacy of kindness she leaves behind. Though she may have passed on, her spirit lives on in the hearts of those who were fortunate enough to know her.
In this time of mourning, let us find solace in the beautiful memories we shared with Joy. As we reflect on her life, let her example remind us to embrace each day with the same love, compassion, and grace that she so effortlessly bestowed upon us all.
Rest in peace, dear Joy. You have left an imprint of love on our lives that time will never erase.
She is survived by her husband Ralph Whitten of Oklahoma; son Michael, and wife Roberta, Smith of Washington; sisters Nancy and Sandra of California; brothers Joe and Johnnie of Oklahoma; grandchildren Brennon, and wife Brandi, Smith of Oklahoma; Shayla, Shawn, Morris of Oklahoma, and Asaely Saldivar of Oklahoma; Paul Smith of Washington; Great grandkids Eli Morris, Saphira Morris, Leon Smith, Aurora Smith, and Kaylan Dean; along with a host of other family and friends that will forever miss and love her.
She is reunited with her granddaughter Lilly Smith.
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