Jennifer Radmer
Gregory, I wish that I would have kept in contact with you. Lauren and I here in California are at a loss for finding any words to show how truly sad we are for your entire family.
I was Gregory Radmer’s Stepmother in California. I am married to his Father Paul Radmer. I can remember a fond memory of Gregory and the Summer he spent in California with his Brother’s and Sister’s his Father and Myself. Gregory had met a girl shortly into his Vacation. And from what the littler Kids had snooped and found out was that he wanted to take his Girlfriend with him back to Oklahoma. Gregory was in love, clearly he hadn’t been in such straights. Over the following week Gregory began to be completed obsessed with his Girlfriend. One Saturday night I tried to stop Gregory on his Father’s direction’s from leaving the house until his Father was home in a few days from working out of town. You would have thought that we were taking his ability to breath oxygen ever again!
I had to reach out and call his Mother Annette. I needed advice as I hadn’t ever dealt with a teenage Boy, whom had gained his manhood while on Holiday at our home 4th of July. So, Gregory was being Gregory he wanted to be with his love. His mother asked me what was he doing wrong? I told her the situation and I added in there that Gregory looked like he was about to become violent! His Mother told me, to stand my ground, he wouldn’t hurt me! He was just puffing up so to speak!
She was right, he was so very upset… He told me that he had to be with his girlfriend or he would… and he balled up his fist’s, then he looked around, I was scared clearly. And he said oh nevermind! He went to his bedroom slammed the door and took a nap. Whenever he awoke all was forgotten.
He was kind, he was oftentimes a mess. In regards to his emotions.
He was gifted, and hr had a huge heart.
Honestly, I remember him talking about death and so on before. I can say this, he wasn’t scared. He believed we were living in hell while we were on this planet. I didn’t agree with him then, but I know he is right now.
Gregory, I know that your up there in Heaven Greg and your rocking out. Waiting for your people to come and join you. Hang on buddy, Our lives on this planet are only a few short days up in heaven. We’re all on our way!
I know that your doing way better up there. God fearfully and wonderfully created you. What the enemy made for your harm God took it and turned into something for your better good! We’re coming Greg only a few short days and we will all be there sitting next to the king and his magnificent thrown-amen.
