James Thurman Kelley's Obituary
It is with heavy hearts that we announce the passing of James Thurman Kelley, a beloved husband, father, son, brother, and friend. James departed this world on October 4, 2023, in Tulsa, Oklahoma, at the age of 39. He was born on January 23, 1984, in the same city he would come to love and cherish.
James lived a life defined by his unwavering love for his family, particularly his precious children. They were the light of his life, and he would do anything to bring smiles to their faces. His love for them was evident in the countless bike and skate rides he shared with them, creating cherished memories that will live on forever.
Family was at the core of James's existence. He reveled in the joy of being surrounded by loved ones, especially during holidays and any day that offered an opportunity for togetherness. His heart was truly immense, radiating warmth and kindness to all who had the privilege of knowing him.
Among the many people who held a special place in James's heart were his dear mother, Teresa, and Aunt Jeri Mills, with whom he shared countless memorable moments. His love for them was a testament to the depth of his affection for his family.
James leaves behind a legacy of love and togetherness that will forever be cherished. He is survived by his loving wife, Marie Thurman-Kelley, who shared in his passion for family and was his partner in creating a loving home. His parents, Teresa and Tracy Joiner, provided him with the love and support that molded him into the remarkable person he became.
James will always be remembered as a doting father to his children: James "J.T." Kelley, Jenna Kelley, Ethan Kelley, Jazmyn Kelley, Jordyn Kelley, and Jazper Kelley. His devotion to them was unparalleled, and his legacy lives on in the values and love he instilled in them.
In addition to his immediate family, James is survived by his aunt Jeri Mills, his brother Ronnie Cothran, and his sisters Stephanie Littleton and Dorathy Jean. He also leaves behind a host of other family members and friends who were touched by his kindness, generosity, and vibrant spirit.
James Thurman Kelley's departure leaves a void that cannot be filled, but his memory will continue to shine brightly in the hearts of all who knew and loved him. His legacy of love, family, and joy will be a source of inspiration and comfort in the days to come.
A celebration of James's life will be held to honor his memory, allowing friends and family to come together to share stories, laughter, and tears, just as he would have wanted. The service will be held on November 6, 2023 from 3 PM - 5 Pm at God's Shining Light Church at 9897 E 11th St Tulsa, OK 74128.
James Thurman Kelley will be deeply missed, but his spirit will forever live on in the hearts of those who were fortunate enough to have known him. May he rest in eternal peace.
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