What a sad day – the world without Jimmie Kay Cash. What will remember most about Jimmie? All of the Christmases, Thanksgivings, birthdays and other family get togethers that she, Winnie, and Connie hosted in Broken Arrow through the years. The only thing better than the food was the laughter and conversation. From the “kids” table I enjoyed chocolate pie, homemade ice cream, steaks at Christmas, and countless other classic Rowland / Cash dishes. Jimmie always went out of her way to make me and my mom - a couple of transplanted yanks from Massachusetts - feel welcome at these close-knit Oklahoma family gatherings. Jimmie was most at home among family. Although she liked to be in charge and have a plan, I remember the small moments when she let down her guard. In those moments, when her face lit up with a smile, I saw the joy, comfort, and pride family provided her.
When Alex joined the family, Jimmie and John (along with Winnie and James) spoiled him rotten. I’m so grateful for all of the time Alex got to spend with Jimmie, including sleepovers and other adventures, including baseball games, rodeos, and numerous trips to Bakers Fish House for catfish (Alex) and frog legs (Jimmie). Jimmie was always asking about Alex’s grades or how he was doing in soccer or baseball or band. Her love for her nephew was obvious for anyone to see.
Jimmie, I’ll miss you. I’ll miss your cooking. I’ll miss your generous spirit. I’ll miss your smile. Most of all, I’ll miss the love you exhibited for your family. You worked hard your entire life. Rest in peace, Jimmie Kay.