Margaret Ann Stanfill's Obituary
Surrounded by the love of her family, Margaret Ann Stanfill passed away on Sunday, May 25, 2025, at the age of 86. A woman of grace and devotion, her kindness and steadfast love were a light to all who knew her.
Margaret was born on March 2, 1939, to Jack B. Vogel and Fannie Belle Cheever (formerly Vogel) in Stillwater, Oklahoma. She married Delmar Lee Stanfill on February 14, 1958. Margaret is survived by her daughters Diana Day and husband Rod of Broken Arrow; Darlene Thompson and husband Jerry of Tulsa; 4 grandchildren, Patrick Day and wife Hayley; Ryan Day and wife Paige; Shelby Carper and husband Pete; and Madeline Faglie and husband Ty; 5 great grandchildren, Axler Day, Timber Day, Case Carper, Brooks Day and Scottie Carper; her sister Martha Firestone and husband Larry; and brother Mike Cheever and wife Allynne. She is proceeded in death by her husband, Delmar and sister, Barbara Mathis.
Margaret spent much of her professional life working as an Administrative Assistant and Human Resources Representative for Kaiser Aluminum Corporation in Tulsa Oklahoma, a role in which she quietly kept things running smoothly and helped others succeed. She was well respected and trusted by her immediate supervisor and all shop employees. After 29 years of dedication to Kaiser, she retired on March 31, 1998.
Margaret was a devoted and loving mother whose greatest joy was raising her daughters and being involved in all their activities. At home, she was a patient teacher, passing on important life skills such as sewing, baking, cooking and countless others that became cherished traditions and lasting memories. Her home was a place of learning, laughter, and love – a reflection of the care and dedication she gave to her family every single day.
Faith was the foundation of Margaret’s life, and she served her church community with joy. Over the years, she volunteered in many ways including leading preschool choir, youth camp cook, and church hostess at Coweta First Baptist. Most recently, she continued to share her gifts by playing piano at assisted living facilities and visiting senior adults who were homebound. As Delmar’s Alzheimer’s disease progressed, Margaret began making fidget quilts – small, sensory blankets designed to comfort and engage those living with dementia. What began as a personal act of love became a ministry of its own, as she thoughtfully designed each quilt to bring a sense of calm to those affected by memory loss. Her hands were always busy creating, but it was her heart that guided every stitch.
Margaret had many hobbies including baking cookies and sweet treats, quilting, gardening, and playing the piano. Her happy place was her sunroom; she would sit for hours watching birds and other backyard wildlife. She loved spending time with family including a standing Saturday ‘girls lunch’ with her daughters and granddaughters.
Above all, Margaret was faithful to her Lord. Her life was rooted in prayer, Scripture and quiet trust in God’s promises. She was committed to reading her Bible, lifting others up in prayer, and living out her faith with grace and humility. Her example of unwavering devotion and gentle strength will continue to inspire all who knew and loved her.
In lieu of flowers, all donations can be made to Evergreen Academy.
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