Mary Essary Bilotti's Obituary
Mary Essary Bilotti, age 82, passed from this life on January 24, 2016 in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Mary was born the oldest of ten children on June 9, 1933 in Poplar Bluff, Missouri to Raymon Otis and Mary Christine (Clark) Essary. Mary moved to Washington, D.C. and worked at the Pentagon as a Secretary to an Adjutant General, became a homemaker to her 8 children and later became an Administrative Assistant for Tulsa University . She is survived by her seven loving children, Mary C. Bilotti, Carmella Anderson and husband, Scott, Frank Bilotti and wife, Jola, Jennifer Moreau, Karen Bilotti, Suzanne Hilinski and husband, Rick, and Mike Bilotti; seven grandchildren, Anastacia Combs, Paul Deckret, Robert Moreau, Angela Little, Nicholas Bilotti, Julia Bilotti, and Kayla Bilotti; one great grandchild, Lyla Combs; siblings, Joe Essary and wife, Alleyne, Laura Hinchey, Pat Essary and wife, Shirley, Phyllis Bush and husband, Lee and Mike Essary; and several nieces and nephews. She is preceded in death by her daughter, Genevieve Bilotti; parents, Otis and Christine Essary; and siblings, Claire Porvazink, Clyde Essary, Jim Essary and Rita Gardner. In lieu of flowers, family has asked that donations may be made to Doctors without Borders. A Memorial Service is scheduled on 2:00 PM Saturday, March 5, 2016 at Floral Haven Rose Chapel. Inurnment will follow in Calvary Cemetery, Erie, PA.
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