Norma Jean Buttress

Birth date: Jun 9, 1932 Death date: Jan 16, 2016

Memorial Services for Norma Jean Buttress, who passed away January 16, 2016 at Saint Francis Hospital, will be held 2:00 p.m. Saturday, January 30, 2016 at the Souls Harbor Church, 418 South 193rd East Avenue, Catoosa, Oklahoma. F Read Obituary

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David Taylor

488w ago

Happy Birthdate Mom.. I gotta admit. You have had better ones. Lets remember those. When you look down thinking surely somebody, anybody must have remembered my birthdate….. and you see nothing …..it wasn't because nobody cared, it wasn't because you werent important, it wasn't because nobody loved you. Believe it or not it was the opposite. One person loved you SO much. You were deprived of others respecting your memory. I don't remember missing many if any of them. I tried not to miss this one. You taught me a lot of things about love Mom. Some I'm not even sure you know you taught me because it was the last time I saw you. You taught me love is respect. I can't disrespect a person or their wishes and then say how much I love them. You tauht me love is caring. I can't not care about you or your wishes and love you. You taught me love is never jealous love is trust … that one has got me in trouble many times The one you never taught me Love is selfish. I'm pretty sure you didn't leave it out by mistake. Just kmow your loved and your missed by many. Today should be a great day to pay respect to the memory of a wonderful Lady. One I was lucky enough to call Mom.. Instead it's not and you get nothing. Thats not what you taught me Mom. Not even close.

David Taylor

488w ago

You have never loved anything but yourself. Put my Mothers remains where they belong. In the cemetery where ALL can pay respect

David Taylor

488w ago

Interesting. I guees Floral Haven won't let Normas own son write the truth about the man she married and how disrespectful he is and why he has deprived us all from respecting her memory and sending flowers on her birth date. Can you say lawsuit ? Sure you can

David Taylor

488w ago

There is a limk on this page that says "send flowers". I don't have much money but June 9th is my Moms Birthday. I love my Mom. I respect my Mom. I wanted to respect the memory of my Mom by remembering her on her Birthday. But the GAY CHILD MOLESTING PERVERT that she married decided to disrespect her, her family and her friends again by keeping the remains of her vessel to himself instead of placing them where my Mom wanted. IN THE FLORAL HAVEN CEMETERY WHERE ALL CAN PAY RESPECT> JOHN BUTTRESS IS AS TWO FACED AS THEY GET> THATS WHY HE STARTED THIS PAGE THEN DISRESPECTED HER WISHES

David Taylor

490w ago

Id gladly give my life up with a smile on my face for one more day with you. I'd give anything for one more of your peanut butter cookies and to see the smile on your face when you hand it to me.I promise I'd share it with Bella. Not sure how I survived Mothers Day this year. I guess the only reason I survived it is because I'm not living. My birthday and yours are coming up. I hope they aren't worse than Mothers Day. I'm not glad your gone. . I am glad your no longer suffering and you aren't having to endure this train wreck as it happens. I'm so sorry you had to endure what you did. It must have been terrible. Your a brave woman. I'll never forget the look on your face when I handed you the stuffed puppy dog before your surgery. It was the first time I saw you look like a little girl. I also knew what the next look meant. But we didn't say it did we. Instead we said see you soon with a smile on our face ….. knowing we were lying to each other. If you happen to check up on me it's not your fault how I'm doing. Don't blame yourself. I'm sticking to what I said "C ya soon." When I was telling you bye on New Years Eve I lied to you I said "I'm sure your not going to win any Mom Awards and Lord knows I could have been a lot better Son. But you could never have someone that loves you more." I lied. You deserve every Mom Award I ever gave you. I wish there were "do overs". I'd give you soo much more. After seeing you all the time for 54 years what I have now is 1 Afghan that you made and 1 picture of you and me. The Afghan is sealed up, the picture is in a frame……. like a lunatic in an Asylum I talk to your picture everyday. Your missed a lot. Thank God you raised me as strong as you did. Otherwise I'd just curl up in a ball and cry myself to death. Love you. C ya soon.

Jodi Hastings

507w ago

I'm so sorry for your loss John, I know this is a very difficult time for you. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family

John Buttress

507w ago

I loved you for almost 50 years, You gave me 43 wonderful years of your life. I will always hold you in my heart. I love you forever.

John Buttress

507w ago

Lit a candle in memory of Norma Jean Buttress

Lou Willadsen

507w ago

I didn't know your Sweetheart but as I look at her face, I feel as if I am looking into the face of a sister and if she is, she is at in her eternal home and is looking into the face of her Savior. When your heart is empty, filling it with happy memories can help. Love follows us, no matter how far.

Brian Elsberry

507w ago

this is very sweet, john. i'm so sorry for your loss!

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