Pamela Lynn Bilby's Obituary
Pamela Lynn Bilby, a resident of Tulsa, passed away May 10, 2018 at the age of 65. She was born September 4, 1952 to Kenneth Arthur Heape and Peggy Ann (Dominy) Ihrig in Independence, Kansas.Pam’s family was her greatest achievement. She took pride in her yard and Koi fish pond and she enjoyed watching all of her grandkids participate in sports. Pam loved cooking, hosting all family holiday parties and get togethers. She loved taking care of children, helped raise not only her children but countless others over the years. When she started working at Tulsa Overhead Door, she treated each person she worked with as family and always made them feel special by cooking or baking for them. She will be missed by all that knew and loved her.She was preceded in death by her husband, Rick Bilby; mother, Peggy Ihrig and father, Kenneth Heape.Survivors include her father,Tommy Ihrig; son, Kenny Bilby and wife, Krystal Bilby; daughter, Darrah Callen and husband, Ken Callen and son, Travis Bilby and wife, Erica Bilby; sisters, Dena Hitchcock and husband, James Hitchcock and Brenda White and husband, David White; step-brother, Steve & wife Barb Ihrig; step-sister, Nancy & husband, Steven J Anderson; grandchildren, Andrew Callen and wife, Miriam Callen, Justin Stocker, Kennedy Callen, Kenley Bilby, Kalib Callen, Kendal Bilby and Emma Bilby; mother-in-law, Bonnie Bilby and countless other extended family members.Memorial Services will be held at 12:30 p.m. Monday, May 14, 2018 at Floral Haven Funeral Home Chapel.
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