Patricia Pilarski's Obituary
Patricia Jean Pilarski, beloved mother, grandmother, sister, and friend passed away peacefully with family at her side on November 4, 2025, in Tulsa, Oklahoma. A woman of deep faith, unshakeable strength, and endless love, Patricia touched the hearts of everyone who knew her.
Born to Joseph and Audrey Mele, Patricia lived a life full of adventure, purpose, and devotion. She faithfully served the Archdiocese of Los Angeles at Holy Redeemer Church for twenty-five years, where she lived out her vocation through daily prayer, kindness, and quiet generosity. Her kindness, humility, and service to others were reflections of her enduring belief in God’s grace and her unwavering faith in Christ guided every step of her life.
She was preceded in death by her beloved husband, Richard; cherished daughter, Linda; precious grandson, Anthony Rodriguez; brother, Daniel Mele; and her devoted parents, Joseph and Audrey Mele.
She is survived by her loving daughter, Lori Rodriguez; Sister Nanette (Timothy) Crossin; grandchildren, Dalton (Lauren) Rodriguez, Dominique (Braden) Watts, Brittney (Callum) Smith; sisters-in-law, Sandra Mele and Patricia Jordan; nieces Kathryn Jordan and Donna Williams; dear friend Father Valentine; and many cousins, extended family, and other dear friends who will cherish her memory forever.
Visitation will be held at Floral Haven Mortuary, 6500 S. 129th Avenue, Broken Arrow, with a rosary and prayer service to follow on November 10, 2025, from 5:00-7:00 p.m.
A Funeral Mass will be celebrated the following day, November 11, 2025, at 10:00 a.m. at the Church of St. Benedict, 2200 W. Ithica Street, Broken Arrow.
A reception will follow to honor Patricia’s life and share memories of her faith and love.
“Well done, good and faithful servant.” Matthew 25:23
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