Sidney…May your be comforted by the memories of your beloved Tom. What a character that Tom…one of a kind. I am honored to have known Tom. His passion for life as an oil man, a yankees fan, a staunch democrat, a union guy, world traveler and historian, a husband, father, and granfather; the joy he got from kids and his love for animals and nature…wll it's easy to see how you fell in love with him. And his humor..was undescribable! We will smile when we think of the "Tom-isms" that made us laugh so. Sid, Tom's devotion to you is something you have forever. We never really lose the ones we love so dearly as they live on in our hearts. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.With Love and many great memories, CindyHOPI PRAYER of The Soul's Graduation:Do not stand at my grave and weep I am not there, I do not sleep. I am a thousand winds that blow. I am the diamond glints on snow. I am the sunlight On the ripened grain. I am the gentle Autumn's rain. When you awaken in the morning hush, I am the swift uplifting rush of quiet birds in circled flight. I am the soft stars that shine at night. Do not stand at my grave and cry. I am not there. I did not die. My Spirit is still aliveÃ?¢ââ??¬Ã?¦