Shirley Ann Gray's Obituary
Shirley Gray, age 73, passed away on May 10, 2026, in Tulsa, Oklahoma. She was born on December 24, 1952, in Pauls Valley, OK, to Boyd and Rosalea Haggard.
Shirley built a successful career in sales and marketing, where her outgoing personality, determination, and natural ability to connect with others made her admired by many. She was a true go-getter who approached life with enthusiasm, kindness, and a generous spirit.
She found great joy in the outdoors and loved camping, boating, RV traveling, and spending time at the lake house she cherished so much. Shirley enjoyed bird watching, gardening, listening to music, reading, shopping, and relaxing with her favorite television shows. She especially loved planning vacations and creating special memories with those she loved.
Known for her warm heart and down-to-earth nature, Shirley was happiest when giving to others. Whether sharing a home-cooked meal, offering help to someone in need, or simply making people laugh, she touched countless lives through her generosity and caring spirit. Her laughter was contagious, her cooking was made with love, and her presence brought comfort and joy to family and friends alike.
Shirley is preceded in death by her parents and brother Harold Haggard
Shirley is survived by her husband Mark Gray, daughter Miranda Jones and husband David, son Stuart Gray, brother Donnie Haggard, brother Loyd Haggard, sister Judy Williamson, along with nieces, nephews, cousins, friends, and loved ones
Visitation will be held Thursday, May 14th, 2026 from 5-7 PM at Floral Haven Funeral Home
Funeral services will be held Friday, May 15th, 2026 at 10:00 AM at Floral Haven Funeral Home Chapel
Interment will follow at Floral Haven Memorial Gardens - Dogwood Mausoleum
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