Birth date: Mar 12, 1945 Death date: Oct 10, 2023
In Loving Memory of Gary Wayne Flinchum With great sadness, we announce the passing of Gary Wayne Flinchum, a beloved husband, brother, uncle, grandparent and friend. Gary, born on March 12, 1945, in Tulsa, OK, peacefully departe Read Obituary
Unfortunately I can not be at the memorial service and don't mind this being read at it. I worked with Gary Flinchum at SelserSchaefer Architects. He's the main reason I do construction administration. He took we under his wing and was a great mentor. We had lots of laughs and fun as well. We had some great times. He really got along with the younger adults at the office and even persuaded us to start running after work. He's the only reason I ran two Tulsa Runs and I didn't run anymore after that cause I really didn't enjoy it but with Gary and the other co-workers we had a good time doing it. Gary always had fun stories or just funny things that would just happen with him around. Even though he is no longer with us, his memories and teachings will keep living. I am sadden by the news but also happy I was able to be part of his life and he a big part of my life. Jeff Thomas
MaryLou Holley lit a candle in memory of Gary Flinchum
Back in the mid-80's, there used to be a creepy laughing clown doll at the house at Grand Lake that sat on the shelf by the living room and kitchen. When you pressed something or pulled a string, very loud and unhinged laughter would come from the clown, which was actually a little terrifying. One day, someone pulled the string, maybe Marcia or Cheryl, and said "it's Uncle Gary." I thought that was the funniest thing and was no longer afraid of the clown, much to Jennie's displeasure. The remainder of that trip, I am pretty sure the clown was put on a shelf out of my reach. Ever since I heard of Gary's passing, I have been scouring eBay to find that laughing clown doll, to put on my shelf with my collection of creepy dolls. Who knows? Gary might be single-handedly responsible for my obsession with creepy old dolls.
Also, watching Gary and John who were thick as thieves during the family fishing tournament, I always enjoyed their bond. They were so fun to be around.
