Megan Rushin
Two months. Sometimes it doesn’t seem like two months have went by but at the same time it’s been the longest two months of my life. I miss you Grady Bates. I’ll love you forever 💜
Birth date: Jul 10, 1992 Death date: Apr 20, 2026
Grady Davis Bates 1992-2026 Grady Davis Bates entered this world on July 10, 1992, at St. Johns Hospital in Tulsa, Oklahoma, bringing joy to his parents, David Wesley Bates and Kathryn Sue Redding. From the very start, Grady’s ar Read Obituary
Two months. Sometimes it doesn’t seem like two months have went by but at the same time it’s been the longest two months of my life. I miss you Grady Bates. I’ll love you forever 💜
Grady always wanted to try out things that I liked doing too. I was *trying* to teach him to use my cricut but somebody was too impatient lol. Which is why there’s letters missing and crooked.
I think about you every moment of every day. I hope you know how much I miss you. I’ll love you forever 💜
It’s been 1 month and it still doesn’t seem real. I don’t think it ever will.
I miss you sending me songs every 2 minutes. I miss you screaming at the video games while I made dinner and the kids played. I miss just sitting on the boat at the dock because that was your favorite place to be. I miss you Grady. I’ll love you forever.
One of my favorite videos & one of Grady doing what he loved most.
I’m missing you so much Grady. I wish things wouldn’t have needed the way they did with us. I wish I could go back and have just 1 more day with you. You’ll forever be my person. Our Celtic love knots mean endless connection and endless love. I’ll forever love you. 💜
Grady was a funny loving young man. My daughter babysat him. He loved playing tricks on her. He told her once. He needed a toy. At the top of a shelf. When she got up there. There is as a huge snake. In a glass enclosure. He was laughing so hard. And he was probably only about 4.
Recently he was giving information. About being a Captain. For my Grandson. He will truly be missed. Love to his parents. And all who loved him.
Judith

Ed StPatrick lit a candle in memory of Grady Bates

I lived next door to his grandmother Wanda Bates in Owasso and although I never knew Grady personally but what I remember about Grady was that he and his dad David Bates would come over on Friday and I would see Grady mowing his grandmother's acreage, I remember thinking what a nice gesture to show how much he cared for his grandmother and then both him and his dad would take Wanda out to lunch. Wonderful memories for me, it sad to think that all 3 are gone now.
Donna Tindal lit a candle in memory of Grady Bates

I have been close friends with Grady’s mother, Suzy since 1997, when we worked together at a Tulsa Veterinary hospital, so I have known Grady since he was around five. I moved away in 2005, when he was around 13, so before he grew into his larger than life teen, then adult persona. I remember a sweet, respectful, quiet boy chilling in the office while his mama worked. Always reading books well above his grade level. Intelligent, articulate, and absolutely loved his mom and Jerry, and baby sister, Grace. I remember how excited he was to watch fireworks for Fourth of July, since his birthday was a few days after. Pretty sure he thought it was his personal holiday. My heart is broken that he has left us Earthside, and I hope he got a huge, warm welcome from all of his beloved family and friends who went before him. Rest in peace Grady, Fair winds and following seas. Leave your family little signs that you made it safely across and your spirit is well when you can. May they see you in a bird, a moment, hear you in a song they connect to you that mysteriously is always playing when they turn on the radio. Peace and healing to all those who love you that you leave here.