Birth date: Sep 21, 1974 Death date: Oct 15, 2025
In Loving Memory of Joy Jeanene Schaberl Joy Jeanene Schaberl, age 51, of Broken Arrow, Oklahoma, passed away on October 15, 2025. Born on September 21, 1974, in Roanoke, Virginia, Joy was the beloved daughter of Barrie Edmond St Read Obituary
I remember Lady J (as we all know her from FOE) both as a kind, carying and funny person but also a leader when needed.
I am very sad to here she is no longer with us and really hope she is in a better place.
I will definitely miss her.
Bozon
Joy, I want to thank you so much for enriching my and my daughter's life. Even though we'd never met face to face, it is pretty amazing how a stupid online hack-n-slash strategy game could bring so many people (from so far around the world) so close together for a few minutes every evening. We all looked forward to when Lady J would grace us with her presence in discord, and all the funny and interesting stories that would ensue. You brought so much excitement and enthusiasm to our little group of players. We all will miss you terribly. My daughter (Bre as you knew her) said she will smile every time she practices piano, knowing that you were able to overhear it in the back ground while we were crushing the GvG maps. I too will be smiling during my next maple syrup season, knowing how much you enjoyed my whiskey infused maple syrup that I sent you. I am so glad that you are beyond suffering now, and hope that wherever your spirit may be, that you would be bringing a smile and some giggles to those around you!! :) Your FoE brother in arms, Matt (Grand)
She was Lady J. Never afraid to voice her opinion, never afraid to be herself. Even though we never met, the time I spent playing Forge of Empires with her allowed me to get to know her and become friends. Through discord, we were able to just hang out and chat. She always made us laugh. I will miss you my friend.
Scorp
Lady J posted this photo in discord at some point. It’s how I will remember her. Vibrant and so full of joy. She will be sorely missed. Her laughter and wild tales always kept us smiling.
Lady J as I knew her. I know it sounds silly to most, but Forge of Empires is a pretty cool game that connects alot of people. I briefly knew her, but she was super funny and always joking on Discord. I am an Officer so she would half heartedly attempt to not incriminate herself in anything. It's not like I could or would do anything anyway. I will miss her spaced out comments and her joy. I pray for her family.
Will miss her in Discord as we fought in FOE. Made us all laugh with her vibrant personality and tails of her daily events. Wish I had been able to meet her in person. Rest in peace.
