My fondest memory of Pat is actually my first time to meet her but it sums up who she is and how she carried herself which can best be described as "Grace Under Fire"! So, in 8th grade I went to Beck's house for the first time and we were outside in an empty lot where Beck was attempting to jump his little bike off a 20' dirt ramp into about 1 foot of water. As we all know, Beck DID attempt the jump and hit that 1 foot of water and also jammed his knee into the bike creating a 1/2" hole in his knee; there was bone showing! I ran to Becks house and immediately told Pat, "Beck is hurt you need to come see", to which she replied "Jayson, you don't know Beck very well do you? This will be the third trip to the ER this week, he can wait a bit"! I knew Pat for 30 years and she always had a positive outlook and loved to laugh; oh that laugh….. once you got her going she wouldn't stop laughing and even though I didn't get to see her much over the last 5 years, I was able to spend time with her when she came to Dallas for her liver transplant and was the first to see her at Baylor when she awoke. She grabbed my hand and said "hey jay"! I loved Pat like my own mother and she treated me like her 3rd son, she will be dearly missed.